Surely we belong to Allah and to Him shall we return. My grandmother has passed away and the life for my whole family has been changed forever.
She was known for her farsightedness and her in-laws admired her for her judicious decisions. At the time of the death of my grandfather, she was only 35 but she appeared to be an epitome of great courage and like a hen she provided warmth and kept her children safe under her feathers.
The Eid for Muslims is an occasion of happiness. After offering our Eid prayers, we were in a habit of gathering around her. The fairies of mirth and happiness used to dance in her room and I can recall all those moments of joy and laughter.
I could recall the traces of pleasure and satisfaction on her face and the contentment which she used to feel in the presence of her children and her grandchildren.
The day before her death, she visited a doctor. The doctor examined her and gave a pat on her back. He said that she was doing very well. My grandmother was so inspired by that gesture that she said to my aunt that when her grandchildren will become doctors they will also encourage their patients in that way. (My sister and one of my cousin are pursuing their medical degrees)
On the day of her death, she recited Holy Quran and offered her morning prayer.
After some time, she felt difficulty in breathing. In no time, she was rushed to the hospital. The doctors did their best, but they couldn’t revive her. Before losing her consciousness, she was reciting the kalima (There is no god but Allah and Muhammad is the messenger of Allah). She insisted on calling upon her children and lost her consciousness.
Many occasions will come and we’ll gather again. Life goes on and there will be many moments of joy and happiness in our lives. But, nothing will compensate for this loss. This void of our lives can never be filled.
I have realized that time flies quickly so seize every moment and take a very good care of your loved ones.
May Allah bless her highest rank in Jannah (Ameen).
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Such a beautiful narration of your grandmother. She is indeed very beautiful and graceful. I bet she loved you a lot. ❤ may Allah grant her ease. Ameen.
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Sum Ameen
Thank you for your kind words . Your presence on my blog means a lot to me!
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Sending thoughts of comfort and sympathy as you mourn your grandmother’s passing.
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Thank you Bethie
May God Bless you
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May God bring comfort and peace to your hearts during this time. Praying for your family.
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Thank you for these kind words of comfort. I feel myself to be greatly blessed with such wonderful friends here.
Best Regards
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It feels so disheartened to know big loss from your side.
May ALLAH grant jannat ul firdous to a pious lady.
It reminded me of my grandmother too – MAY ALLAH give us sabr
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Ameen.
Indeed, it is a loss that can never be fulfilled.
Stay blessed
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I am so sorry about the loss of your grandmother. I know how deep that loss is from the experience of losing mine. She sounds like she was a rock and pillar for your family. She was a beautiful young woman and its obvious she loved her family and her faith. I wish you and your family much comfort during this difficult time.
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Yes, my grandmother was like a queen in our family.
Thank you, PJ for these kind words of support.
Stay well
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My grandmother was my “queen.” I loved her dearly and still miss her terribly.
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I guess this is one of the most precious relation. Thanks PJ for reading and commenting
Stay Well
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You stay well too!
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I just thought of the word I wanted to say, your grandmother was your family’s “matriarch.” That is a very respected and beloved position to have in a family.
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This is perfect!
It actually depicts her.
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That certainly is a position of honor.
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I’m sorry to hear that, sister! May Allah put her soul in high place n makes hers as a tranquil soul, Allahummagfirlaha warhamha wa’afiha wa’fu ‘anha, ameen.
I can feel your feeling, dear…. It’s hard when we lost our family. (My dad had passed away last August). May Allah bless you n your entire family! Your grandma was really beautiful! 💗
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Thank you, sister for your kind words of condolences.
May Allah listen to your prayers. Sorry to hear about your father.
May Allah bless his soul and placed him in Jannah. (Ameen)
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Ameen……jazakillah to your nice du’a too. I’m sure your grandma was a righteous muslima….
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I am so sorry for your loss. And may her soul rest in Perfect peace and may she have the best of the hereafter. Stay strong ❤
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Ameen.
Thank you Ameena. These kind words mean lot to me.
Stay blessed
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I am so sad at the loss of your sweet grandmother. Thank you for sharing some of your sweet memories. 💖
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Thank you for your support. It means a lot to me.
Stay Blessed
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Ameen and Allah yerhmha. I am so sorry for your lost but what a lovely why to die. To read quran and pray before your death and insallah she is in heaven now maybe l fardows. Allah yerhmha again.
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Ameen sum ameen.Thank you for these kind words of sympathy.
May Allah shower His blessings upon you and your family.(ameen)
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I am sorry for your loss. I know from experience losing a grandparent can be very tough. I lost my grandpa on my 14th Birthday and it still aches today. But it sounds like your grandma lived a wonderful life and was proud of her family. I bet she was proud of you too. Sometimes the holes left from loved ones passing never go away but we find ways to move on and fill those holes with our love of God and people. Best of luck and my condolences.
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Thanks mandi for these kind words of condolense. You are very right in saying that love of God and people help us in moving forward.
Thank you and stay blessed
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